This is the first time in my life that I’m announcing my birthday. I’ve never paid too much attention or sought the spotlight. Usually, I’m quite upset on this day, and it seems like not a single birthday has passed without tears. Why? It’s the one day that painfully confronts me with the fact that I have no idea who my father or mother is. As I write this, I realize I may not have taken you on this journey with me yet, and it might be a good idea to delve a bit deeper. Let me know your thoughts in the comments down below.
Confronting the Unknown:
Returning to the topic, the day feels like a balance is being weighed on whether you’ve done well or not. It’s judged by the cards you receive, the number of people who wish you, or those who show up on your birthday.
As you know, I travel a lot and don’t stay in one place for too long. The downside is that unless you announce it yourself, no one really knows when your birthday is. Back in the day, you had a shared calendar with friends for a decade, and you attended all the birthdays dutifully.
Stepping Out of the Shadows:
This year, I wanted to do things differently. Instead of fading into the background, I’m stepping out of the shadows. To be honest, my birthday is tomorrow, but since I post a blog every Monday and my birthday falls on a Tuesday this year, it seemed fantastic to announce it a day in advance.
I also believe in hanging your own decorations if no one else does. And that’s perfectly okay. In the end, you have to take care of yourself!
Turning 36: What a Time to Be Alive:
Turning 36, what a time to be alive! As I reflect on another year, I am filled with gratitude for the experiences, lessons, and growth. Each year brings new challenges, but also new opportunities for self-discovery and connection.
Conclusion:
So, here’s to embracing the unknowns, celebrating oneself, and stepping into the light, even when it feels vulnerable. Thank you for being a part of this journey, and I look forward to the adventures that turning 36 will bring. Cheers to life, growth, and the courage to announce one’s birthday!
Yours,
Tati


